I just started to think differently…

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I just started to think differently…

Her bright eyes shone without apology. This was new for her. She told me about how she was learning and growing. She told me how her life was changing. She used to apologize after almost every sentence. Read more…

Spiritual Leadership

Spiritual Leadership is a role like nothing else I know.  This role may or may not have anything to do with running a religious organization like a church or a ministry.  It is almost a contradiction in terms because leadership carries the connotation of going first, and the tag, “spiritual” carries the meaning of going last.  So what does one “do” if others consider them a spiritual leader.

Often we see leaders as those who stand out front and call the shots.  They give direction and in some cases directives.  Vision and strategy and those kind of things are the most common currency of leaders.  Are these also the marks of spiritual leaders?

Because the spiritual Kingdom we inhabit and promote is so contrary to the world system with which we are familiar, we need to consider carefully where leadership in one Kingdom diverges from leadership in the other.  If we look to Jesus as our prime example it may significantly undermine some of our thoughts about leadership.

A spiritual leader leads by being the first to go into the difficult places, and then, by simply being there, invites others to follow.  Places like the foot of the cross, where our weaknesses are our qualifications, and our failures are on display. Places like the recesses of our soul, where God is glorified by doing what a Redeemer and a Healer does best.  As a leader goes first into these places, he too can become familiar with sorrow and acquainted with grief like the One we follow.  As a leader goes first into these places others find the freedom to follow, knowing that they will find meaningful company in these places.

A spiritual leader helps others find their true identity and identification, rather than roles that serve some outward mission.  If the destination is helping others become who God created them to be, your strategy to accomplish this cannot be contrary to the stated goal.  Free people free people, and people under compulsion will find it difficult to reproduce anything but compulsory performance. Those who find their God connected self, cannot help but fulfill their God-given mission.

A spiritual leader must engage in the lives of those being lead.  Jesus Himself left the comforts of a distant realm and entered not only the land of humans but the body of one.  He did not leave Himself room to back out.  The Kingdom is not only within us, it is among us. Somewhere in the connection between us, and the ways we connect the Kingdom is manifested.  We have tasks to accomplish, but none of them can ever be more valuable than the people involved and the God-given identity that Jesus died for.

While a leader may at times have to make some hard calls, and give tough directives, having done so first in his or her own life gives them the right and the grace to do so in the lives of others. The hardest decisions and most difficult confrontations need to be those we allow God to speak into us as we lead.

Spiritual leadership….where are we taking those who follow?

God scared me recently. I liked it.

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God scared me recently. I liked it.

The following post is from a good friend of mine Named Josiah Solis, and re-printed with his permission.  He is part of the Tribe which will be changing the world…..go find him on my Facebook page and tell him your responses. Read more…

Never the Same

She stood defiantly in the face of her past and shouted it down.  God had healed another heart.  One by one she named the moments of her past when darkness had tried to snuff out the life God intended for her.  The moments were big and dark.  Most of us have not lived through the things she lived through.  God was bigger, kinder and more powerful than all that the darkness had thrown at her, and she stood up to proclaim it to everyone in the room.

God had visited this room full of leaders in a tangible way.  Something about when we turn our minds and our hearts toward Him seems to invite His presence and He had come like mist into the room.  You could feel the shift.  We were discussing His Nature and His Love.  We were declaring His Power.  He seemed to like that because He came to show us.  And when He did He climbed inside this woman’s heart and burned out from her years of rejection, shame fear and loneliness.  Then she stood to declare it.

The force of her words seemed to move the air in the room like thunder.  She spoke a language I did not understand, but the look on her face and movement of her heart transcended things like words.   She would name an incident and then climb victoriously on top of it.  Moment by moment by moment, the trauma of her life bowed to God’s Breath and her reception of it.  With each declaration He seemed to increase His presence through her and among us.  We were on Holy Ground.  She was in Holy Hands.

When she finished casting down this life time of trauma, she began to express what He was doing in her.  Rejection became ultimate Acceptance.  Shame became Love.  Pain became Joy and darkness became Light.  The same God who had created the cosmos with His voice was speaking to her and through her.  And as He did He was creating again.  We watched in wonder.

He said to her, “I will never leave you or forsake you”.  She believed Him.  So did we.  It changed me, and I will never forget what I saw.

Look at me

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Look at me

The longer I am gone the more I want to look at my wife.  The more days I spend out of the country the more I want to see my kids.  Let me re-write that last sentence.  The more I am away, the more I want to look into the eyes of the ones I love.  Read more…

He’s Alive…how about you?

He is risen.  He is risen indeed. Notice the sentence that changes everything doesn’t mention your name.  Not even a pronoun about you.   Because “He is risen indeed” is enough.  Before we turn this celebration of Easter into more knowledge of good, I want to point out a great sounding deception that has ensnared many followers of Jesus.  Here is how we say, or think this subtle trap.  “He died for me, I should live for Him.”  What if you shouldn’t?  What if God isn’t even asking for that?

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Well meaning encouragement and admonition can often urge us deeply into one of the greatest traps that Jesus’ followers face;  the trap of self-effort on behalf of One who has given His life to free us from “self-anything”.  So often we try to “do for” God.  In my counseling practice my primary role was to help people change.  The challenge was to help people change the right thing in the right way.  The right way was the most difficult aspect of change.  The right change from the wrong source was destined for long-term failure.

It has been my observation that often “Christian Counsel” has strong roots in Humanism.  You know, humanism.  The ‘ism’ that says humans are the center of life and outcomes originate from and are completed by humans.  It sounds so contrary to the Christian faith right?  That is because it IS!.  The problem is we don’t always recognize humanism when it is wrapped in lots of Christian language.

Any change that is not empowered by the death, and resurrection of Jesus, and the movement of the Holy Spirit, is ultimately humanism. Another name for this is “our knowledge of good”.  The impulse and power source of our thought, our effort, our  emotional state must originate “from God”.  The only other option is that your thoughts, efforts and emotions originate from your soul, or from some other spiritual force.  Neither can produce life.

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He is risen.  He is risen in you.

A friend of mine recently told me this story.  She was praying with friends, and one of them asked God what He wanted to do for this friend of mine.  As she relays the story, the eyes of her heart saw God, the Father, embrace her and pull her into a tight embrace.  He placed her heart against His and she suddenly felt like a defibrillator shocked her.   She describes that in that moment power filled her, emanating from her chest spreading through the rest of her being.  More than what she says…the way she tells the story is captivating.

Her eyes light up.  Her countenance relaxes and light seems to come from her features.  Her smile grows every time she tells someone else.  Something has changed in her since that moment.  Listen to her words.  “I was dead, and now I am alive”, she says.  I have heard her say it a few times now, and every time she says it I feel more alive.  Almost like overflow, from her experience.  Almost like she is now the recipient of Living Water, and people around her get wet.

God is not asking you to do something  for Him.  He is offering to do life through you.  Have you been wondering why your “Christian walk” seems un-fulfilling, or less than you had hoped for?  Perhaps it is because it has been your christian walk.  The significance of Easter is not simply that God brought Jesus back from the dead.  The significance of Easter is that He brings you and I back from the dead.  If you do not know that you are dead it will be difficult for you to receive life.  If you think your study, your rule following, your quiet times, your attendance or obedience are life then it will be unlikely that you will receive that which you believe you already have.

He is alive…how about you?

A Saturday kind of Season

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A Saturday kind of Season

Yesterday we celebrated something which, at the time of the actual event, was not celebrated but mourned.  The death of Jesus was, to most, a shocking and devastating end to a soaring hope.   Read more…

Lessons from the Vine

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